Chronicles June 2005
June 1st 2005
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~ harsh dreams in shadow lands ~
distant memories caught in nights sleep, leaving us gasping for breath as we wake with a
start. Our shadow world revealed in hapless laboured moments, as torments deep is writ on
the conscious mind.
My shadow world revealed to me, a glimpse into darker depths where power is mine for brief
moments and tormentors catch me unawares...
I woke again and again from dreams which left me powerless. Some monster making my inside
world a torment as horrid memories scour and leave me naked. Where memories are conjured of
failure and oppression, I hark to bad moments in my life. The man so bent on will, so bad in
his use of power, I could not change him. Gentle influence and persuasion through example,
it did me no good or use of reason and logic and would be seen as pious in my harsher
reflections. I could not evoke in him his good conscience if ever it existed. For I realised
too late he had no conscience like mine. My notions of fair play and honesty had no value to
him, as surely as he undid me, I found myself undone.
That black dog of defeat as I realise too late my folly, he had all the power and my appeal
to right and justice held no sway. I toppled with alarm to exhaustion, spent on futile toil.
I got no sense of achievement whatever I did. And loyalty kept me going too long. Loyal to
an ideal of humanity, squandered on a leader without one decent quality.
Impaled on my notions of ethics and codes of honour, I laboured to no avail, far beyond
where others had given up. I did not realise and too late in nightmares comes the ugly truth
of failure. I failed to turn another to a path of good. I was righteous and indignant as my
ego swelled to protect the hurt I felt. And ego, never my strongest trait, for I saw it as
the epitome of weak character, my ego failed as I broke to smithereens.
Stuck endless moments as fractured shards cut my shadow. My shadow where ego's worst
prevailed, that dark place where secret thoughts run free. Now struck dumb in front of
torments window, where that scene plays over and over. And I cannot be set free and no one
hears my screams.
Dark nights of shock as the nightmare takes me over and over endlessly playing, excoriating
to reveal beneath each layer, the same nightmare enhanced, more vivid, more fearful and
dread would rouse me with a furious start.
Alone, captured in a rage of memory, the fugue incomplete as tortured recollections seep
into that waking moment. A fugue, where recollection is forgotten, stealing away that grip
which holds the key to terror.
And thankful as my tardy memory makes good the horror which waits for me in slumbers,
forgotten in my waking hours when my world feels safe. And when my world is challenged by
that ill force of malice, I bide my time and opportunity to rectify those impostors I
encounter.
And as I ponder close, I sense redemption lies in forgiving moments learned in reflection.
Accepting that which can be changed, knowing that which is immutable and learning the wisdom
to know the difference...
Serenity, clear and free of storms or unpleasant change, is as transient as we find all
states of mind. We work hard for wisdom's gift, humbly, accepting our light and dark and
making our informed choices in life. Our Spirit and spiritual path, our gift to and from
humanity. The gift of conscious conscience, making good our world...
June 2nd 2005
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~ contemplation ~
When I start the day with a moment of solitude and contemplation, even the most crowded
schedule runs more smoothly
June 3rd 2005
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~ gently, with patience ~
The habit of telling myself off subtly shapes a nature of sorrow. Instead, let me talk to
myself gently, with patience, as one would do to a child
June 4th 2005
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~ principles and values –
inclusion and exclusion ~
We all have codes of behaviour. And most people have codes of behaviour which keeps them and
their community safe. In fact we make laws in civil societies to protect our communities and
individuals.
When we have conflicts and some misadventures, it’s important we understand the nature of
breakdowns in our community. We need often to separate out the feelings we have for a person
and their behaviour. It’s easiest to challenge the behaviour, which can be changed, rather
than alienate the person.
An example is, saying to a person ‘I care deeply about you, at the same time I feel you are
behaving….’ This is a good way to enable a person to become aware of needing a change in
behaviour and not being undervalued as a person. A person can then consider their options
without loss of position or their esteem.
It is hard for many who see challenges to their behaviour, to see the difference. Often a
challenge is felt as a personal attack on character. This is often inevitable, if we are
impatient or abrupt in an angry challenge.
All of us learn by our mistakes. Principles and values, our traditions enable a move to our
good conscience in matters of conflict. Good conscience helps us help ourselves and others
moderate our responses to disagreeable occurrences.
When we use our principles and values, observe best kept traditions we help keep everyone
included in our communities. Where we get breakdowns, where we don’t observe principles and
values, and react to situations we may end up excluding individuals without due
consideration.
Exclusion from a community and any society is the harshest penalty exacted on anyone.
Through history, the exclusion of an individual highlights difference and prejudice.
Inclusion enables us to keep seeing the similarities and valuing diversity, and surely is
the best solution to most upsets we experience.
Exclusion, as a means of ensuring well being and safety overall, has been proved without a
shadow of doubt to be a failure and reaction in moments of extreme tension. Exclusion is
often seen as the only answer when reason will not prevail.
Exclusion enables ill will, poor outcomes and loss. When we exclude from our society, the
loss is profound. Especially for those who exclude, for they impose their will over others,
become wilful and elitist.
There is profanity in exclusion. It is the weapon of self destruction, destruction of safe
communities and indefensible. Inclusion enables, keeps us safe and considered. Inclusion
asks we challenge and respond, supporting dynamic communities.
Where we include, we develop, where we exclude we close down. Where we are challenged in our
outlook, safe principles, values and traditions make good our conscience and the challenges
we meet every day of our lives.
June 5th 2005
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~ gratus – grateful ~
Gratus, the Latin for grateful. It is a state of mind, gratitude is something we view and
experience. Gratitude is something we feel after the fact of some event or experience which
adds value to our life.
We can be grateful just about anything we experience. Simply, we are able to learn and
reflect on events in our lives. We can be joyous in our gratitude and sad in our gratitude.
All events we deem for the good and for the worse, we learn.
Sometimes when life is full of hardship we are grateful for the simplest basics of survival.
This is most likely when we have been deprived of the basics in life. And for some the most
basic ways of life are the most rewarding.
We can be grateful for most anything. Our breath, our heartbeat in extremes of circumstance
can be enough to be joyous.
Most often our gratitude encompasses love. Being able to love and experience a moment in all
its dimensions. In a moment we capture the essence of life, our life and others lives.
And most extraordinary, when we have a surfeit of rich memories, we are drawn to an almost
Carthusian and ascetic outlook. To draw as much as we can from a single moment in time can
provide recollections savoured over a lifetime.
Gratitude for life comes from our experiences of joy and sadness. The poignant sting of
every heartfelt emotion enriches our outlook.
With gratitude I have acceptance over every moment derived from this life, given to the next
however it may transcend. Through generations of endeavour, through an unknown spiritual
connection, we might ponder…
Not for long as time moves us on. In growth and decay, simultaneous with every breath we
take we grow and decay to some extent. Existential Journeymen, yielding to eternity, we hope
for passage and savour our gratitude…
June 6th 2005
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~ Acceptance ~
One year on in a new way of life. A form of recovery from many demons I have had to face.
All my demons are self driven torments most people deal with daily and without resort to
help from others.
Why me? Someone, I have been told is intelligent by all accounts, at the mercy of my wilful
behaviour. Setting myself impossible goals in life, expecting me to achieve the very highest
standards and codes. And failing to grasp the most rudimentary elements of living. We are
best able to achieve and experience what life has to offer with the help and support of
friends and family and our community. John Donne wrote some four centuries ago:
'No Man is an Island'
No man is an island entire of itself; every man
is a piece of the continent, a part of the main;
if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe
is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as
well as any manner of thy friends or of thine
own were; any man's death diminishes me,
because I am involved in mankind.
And therefore never send to know for whom
the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.
June 7th 2005
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~ loss ~
loss is forever part of life. We lose most we experience as time marches forever toward
renewal and decay. We see the cycle of life and rebirth all around and fear it and love it
with equals measures, yet never quite to the same object and subject of our attention.
When young we never see our end, for life looks and feels an eternity of experience. We feel
impatient to absorb the world and every element, moving swiftly to graze on life and fill
our needs and desires. When we grow older and the candle burns lower, our light less bright,
we hark to life memories deep within. Sometimes with a glow and warmth, and oft as the pale
cool memories in shadows grasp, we fall into that empty ache of loss.
I talked of denial with dear friends. Where we need our denial to keep us safe from reality,
when every waking second is too much to bear.
Denial has been a friend indeed when no friend could touch raw truth and make it seem
acceptable to me.
Denial an old friend, keeping dark my raw nerve, keeping me safe when ego and esteem alike
will not hold me safe from daily torment. Denial, my inner sanctum, where reality cannot cut
another swathe and leave me helpless.
And denial fades as my sensitive nature heals with measure equal to the pain I can bear.
Denial fading into the shadows of time. At least my friend is ever present to protect and
serve.
June 8th 2005
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~ one day at a time
we are equal to life ~
Is the only day we have to experience to the full measure what that day offers.
Often we hear slogans and exhortations, that we have just one day to live, as if it were our
last. And maybe we feel the ##### to conscience that we waste it when we have chosen to sit
and reflect on history. Or even be absorbed within and not look outward at the world.
How else would we know to look outwards to this day, if we were foolish and did not heed our
personal reflections.
No day is wasted for in idle moments which can last an eternity, our minds eye wastes no
time ever. We come to life and we are its equal.
June 9th 2005
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~ positivity ~
Take delight in small things because it is from seeds that flowers grow
Flowers... how often I missed that simple pleasure of watching flowers grow. Simple, nature
and perfection made good from seeds of life. We all are a product of Nature. We come to the
world with the code of life implanted and developed through time as our planet turned around
our sun.
It is beyond our imagination, that this world came to be 'as is' to our eyes. And still we
imagine more, develop more, grow more.
Will our world be never ending? We need not worry over impossible conundrums. We need live
our life span as best we can. Imagine for a moment, the flower blooms and decays in its own
eternity, as will ours. And living on through time our impression and impact are felt by
future generations imbued with the gentle, subtle touch of dreams and recollections
whispering across the ether. Ephemeral beings, eternal impression to touch and guide this
brief moment and leave our legacy felt somewhere in future muse.
Nature and our spiritual endeavour, forever changing, forever moving, our whisper to the
Universe..
June 10th 2005
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~ contentment ~
To make good use of what you have and to let go of what you do not use is to live in a
contented way
When we are able to weigh up and balance life elements, we find our path. Letting go of
wilful wants is the most difficult. Often desire and yearning keep us locked in a world
where we cannot achieve. If we accept those things we cannot change, we make room for those
we can. And the real skill is not a trick, its being open and clear in our mind to the
present day and what we can make real.
We are allowed to daydream, to speculate, and to make a vision for the future. And as we
shape our vision, we see the practical steps to our goal. If along the way we realise we
need to change our understanding and goals, we make good our journey.
Don't ever be afraid to change, and feel good about endeavour. Dreams are quite achievable
when we apply our wisdom. How else would we see a man on the moon? How else would we see our
own happiness in simple steps to fulfilment without a little dreaming? Reality and wisdom
set us on paths to fulfilment, when we are short on the how, sharing informs our view.
June 11th 2005
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~ when things change ~
most changes in our lives which are initiated by others are a ####### nuisance at best and a
disaster at worst
So who said life is fair. Well it can be if we realise that we are always facing a lifetime
of changes. Everything changes all the time. I get my fair share of negative reactions to
changes I have no power over, no control and are always inevitable. I need to get over it,
which I do. It just takes me some time to get to grips and come to the new terms of
reference.
I am human, and being powerless over most everything, well I reckon its pretty good for me
to realise. Then what is, is. What happens, happens. And I can make the best of the days I
have.
I wrote somewhere, having heard it elsewhere,
'before you go to bed forgive everyone everything including ourselves'
And I added, 'when you still have or I still have negative feelings to the changes, "####
em"'
Eventually I will forgive, and every night I will get to sleep eventually. And eventually I
won't need to say"#### em" in the morning. And I will recover and get on with life. Anger
and denial, we need them to keep us going when nothing else does, because we are set to one
default primary emotion...
Love, and love will conquer all...eventually!
June 12th 2005
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~ Being Ourselves~
Being ourselves at the best of times is difficult. For years we have been programmed to be
like most other people we know. And we are asked to behave in certain ways by family and
society. So being ourselves often means conforming to others peoples idea of what we are.
Meeting with friends today, the alert is always there. To conform and be a part of
something. I am glad for the most part I can be the person I am learning to be, that is me.
I don’t really have a clue who I really am on any particular day. I exist and get on with
things I must, things I might enjoy, things from which I learn.
Most important learning for me right now is how to feel my feelings. Every day we are prone
to hide our true feelings, to keep them in check in case we are seen as different and
threatening. Most often we hide feelings to avoid being hurt and criticised.
It comes to us all someday, it is better to show our feelings, to feel them as they occur,
not to suppress them. When we let feelings out as they happen, they are right sized and
dealt with as we go along. When we build them and hide them, they are never as we would wish
and they are hard to express. Too big or too small, not quite right.
So when we experience and express, we get them right, in their intended measure about the
right thing.
Its complicated to be here and NOW isn’t it?
June 13th 2005
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~ greetings and happy days –
on the road to Elysium ~
How often do we say to others how well they look? Often we someone says to me, ‘you look
wonderful’, I wonder how well I prepare a mask to show the world.
It is the hardest of all human qualities to fathom. It comes from our nature and our
nurture, to hide and mask our true feelings, for to do so would put us in some peril or
other. Exposure to our vulnerable inside feelings are best kept under wraps, we are taught.
When we see ourselves in the mirror, we may choose only to see what we want others to see.
We hide so much of our inner thoughts and feelings, we might wonder how we get them out.
We make virtue of masks, and make up. We encourage pretence and we encourage displays of
well being. A lot of trickery. Some call this faking it to make it. Some call this putting
our best foot forward. And even more call it "putting on a brave face".
Since time made us sentient, there has been something we want to hide. Where our shadow
world of elicit and fundamental self resides. That place where unspeakable us lives and
dwells, the more sinister, the more colourful, the more vulnerable parts of us.
We should make a visit into the dark shadows frequently to check our complete nature, from
our genes to our learning, the completeness of us holds great portents when connected. We
can encompass our whole and let our mind wander across the vastness of time, an ocean of
experience.
When we look beyond our mask, the world of making do, there is no sinister us, there is the
complete us as we really are. And as we open the door and let out every nuance that
completes our package, we know our light, we know our dark and we make our choices and we
let ourselves grow. Our growth on complete knowledge enables our worldly and spiritual paths
to mingle and enrich ourselves and others. Included and informed, in control of what is ours
and able to love without condition. Now, who said that is an easy world to experience? No
one, or why else would we mask our magnitude?
June 14th 2005
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~ honest broker ~
we might wish to believe that we try to be honest brokers in life. That we live our lives to
an ethical code. We see honesty and truth, fair dealing and integrity as our touchstones
guiding our conscience in all matters.
How often we may slip away and become enmeshed in less helpful outlooks, where we stray from
truth, our honesty is as good as our outlook and prejudice creeps into our world. We strive
for fairness and integrity is embraced to make good the fabric of our thinking. Where
emotions drive us, so all our best efforts might give way to weakened resolve.
We are all honest brokers in our minds eye; we are culpable and driven to judgement which
holds self interest dear. And we learn over and over the penalty of living with poor
choices. Our spirit and conscience tell us almost in the moment that we may stray into
dangerous territory if we shape the truth, just nod to honesty, and worse negotiate our
position to suit self interest.
And there is the rub of it; self interest in some way is our best interest. Yet the greater
good of our community might be compromised at least and destroyed at worst when self
interest drives our lives.
We need to be honest brokers in our own minds eye. We need to challenge our codes and
ethics, as quick as conscience makes our skin burn with the shame of deception. So we are
driven by our light and dark, our good and bad. Self reliance and self will, they are
forever challenging our group conscience and societal responsibilities. We tread a tightrope
oft ticking away as the events of life are held to scrutiny in our thoughts. Our feelings
react immediate to the danger and we can mislead ourselves to poor choices and much
justification.
We are honest brokers as we examine our lives, moving towards conclusion, we see with
hindsight, better opportunities lost to time. As honest brokers we can accept our choices,
their origin, their efficacy and outcomes we lived.
We share our experiences, our strength and hope, as we march onward, illuminating our
fellows and their steps to the future. Our judgement internal and deep in reflection, our
conscious conscience, our guide to the future. May it be so every day.
June 15th 2005
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~ changing times~
It is wise to bend rather than break.
June 16th 2005
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~ intrepid ~
characterized by resolute fearlessness, fortitude, and endurance
We all have these qualities inside us, the ability to be intrepid in each and every day.
Its part of our make up to take each day as it comes, because we have little option. When we
analyse our powerlessness over most elements. As some would suggest we are powerless over
people, places and things. We are quite rightly faced with uncertainty every moment. And our
awareness of this ticks alongside our desire for stability, peace and tranquillity.
All life has paradox. And for us humans, the same as all of nature, we might wish for a
steady state of being. We often hear we might get enthusiastic with change and embrace it,
yet when change is thrust upon us, we head for denial as a safety net. Safety in holding on
to a pattern of life we hold as our sanctuary.
Most likely as we realise our subconscious deals with changes without complaint, we might be
assured our conscious activities might benefit from the same outlook. Yet when we are faced
with change, we most often can recoil and hark back to times we prefer.
Odd our lives are laced with opposite viewpoints. And yet we need them all to complete our
picture of the world.
And in reaction, we balk at change, in response, we often relish change. So with a little
patience we get to new outlooks which encompass our new surroundings. I wonder how our
ancestors coped with fire!
As a species we are adapting, we are becoming something new with every generation. As my
grey hairs grow more abundant, so less hair I have. As there is forever more to see in the
world, my eyes grow dim. In my minds eye, sprightly as ever, intrepid as ever, the world
throws me surprises every single day.
And what I do with those surprises I will know as time moves me forever onward in human
doing and human being...
June 17th 2005
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~ never despair? ~
No matter how grave a situation, never despair. Yet we will...
What is it like, to lose all hope or confidence? We don’t want to lose our confidence and
especially hope. Yet it seems we do, when we are overwhelmed and powerless over things which
affect our lives. There is a trap for us all, to get stuck and unable to let go of old
situations and change our outlook. To accommodate today and understand our new situation is
in fact liberating. When we have invested so much in stability, change can be the hardest
thing to accept.
We feel torn and our confidence goes when we lose something. People, places and things when
lost, well, nothing prepares us for the sadness which follows when we feel these losses.
Upheaval from stable happy and joyful times, to those of change, they do disturb us. The
extent of that disturbance is equal to our personal investment, our emotional tie to our
situation and circumstance.
We do well when we acknowledge our feelings and let them run their course. When we suppress
our feelings, they remain in us and await some outlet in the future. And while they remain
suppressed, they hamper us. It is better to let our emotions out and share them. Emotions
are there to help us make sense of our world. What we do in actions is helped by our
thinking. We can react happily and sadly to our situations, we need to think through these
events and find useful expression. This is where reaction and response can be so critical to
our personal outlook. Often our reactions are immediate and unfettered, happy or sad, in the
moment and quite impulsive. We are taken by surprise often by our emotional depths. Our
responses are mitigated by our thinking. We place context and see the whole picture. So
often, it is better to feel the reaction, and then think, so we can respond.
Reaction and response are part of our feeling processes. We cannot deny our feelings. We
need to learn the difference. So when we react, we can feel the raw edge, when we respond it
is a deeper and longer process of feeling.
We are all hot headed, we are all level headed, we learn about our deeper feelings when we
find helpful expression. Helpful expression is not always seen as appropriate to others when
we are upset. So we learn our reactions and we learn our responses. Reaction to painful
change will always be difficult, responses to it are best shared, or prolonged denial might
block our path to future happiness.
June 18th 2005
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~ the power of goodwill ~
Having benevolent feelings for all generates goodwill. The power of goodwill makes the
impossible possible.
letter to a friend
Hi there,
I have put much thought into what we do as humans. I know from my years of experience that
most people never sort out their lives, they just drift from one crisis or ordinary
situation to another.
As people who are more 'able' following personal reflection, we do have greater sensitivity
to life in general. And as we develop our conscience, we do have deeper and more profound
awareness to "people, places and things". We are more able to see our part in all we
encounter.
Self knowledge is very helpful so long as we keep the context of what is possible. And this
is really helpful when we realise we can only control ourselves and manage our own part in
the day. And I guess we must have acceptance for how others are faced with the same dilemmas
without the knowledge or deeper understanding gained over the years. Maybe the wisdom is to
accept our own part, and accept our culpability without blame to ourselves or others.
Wisdom for me is letting go our own part and that of others too. Our feelings are real, our
reactions often unmanageable. Our responses are reflections and where feelings are strongest
when we see what could have, might have, should of and did not occur. And in matters of the
heart, we can love profoundly, even when we recognise changes in relationships might end in
loss and sadness. We let go that which is most dear and face much pain inside, especially
when we love with passion.
I can imagine the painful feelings, only to my experience. I have empathy for the situation
you describe, even though I cannot feel the intensity you must be going through. Someone
once said to me (the guru counsellor of the nineties)" I feel your tears", I felt like
throttling him.
Knowing is the very devil, doing the right thing, very painful, accepting things must change
is the hardest. Sometimes people come back when there are changes. In the meantime, I can
only guess that one day at a time works, so far for me anyway. And allowing myself to feel
the emotions daily, till they subside back to manageable proportions. I still have feelings
for the girl who knew me inside and out, who lives far away, she is happy, I hope. And I
accept it, no I don't, yes I do! I do finally, and that took me ages. So take care my
friend, and very best wishes,
June 19th 2005
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~ the way of the world ~
We all have notions about the way of the world and how it affects us. Should we be concerned
about the big picture? And what of nature and people? And the environment in all of its
complexity? Of course, we should consider our path through life. What we do as individuals
always has an impact on our surroundings. We might feel insignificant, we might feel
powerless. It’s true; for the most part we appear to have little or no impact. If we feel
that way, we will never see that every element has impact, has a place, and has some
contribution to our world.
Our contribution to the world is our presence and what we choose with a little thought and
application makes our impact. In the grand scheme, the great design of human doings we all
have our time and place.
Most often we may never know the extent of our impact, and it matters little to us. Less
often we see some inspiration in life, a person, a cause or event which influences us and
sets us on actions we may never have imagined.
Forever so, our impact is felt, we all have our contributions to make. Most of the entire
journey though, is our celebration of existence. And we can celebrate the lightest touch;
know the softest moment will change our world. And best of all we can reflect and cherish
our time upon this earth.
Endeavour, fortitude and hope keep us safe when life is extreme, and the same is true when
life is balanced. Life on the edge and life in balance, a matter simply of balance. The
balance of life, tips see-saw and rarely without motion, across oceans of time.
June 20th 2005
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~ plant the seed of peace ~
As our thought so is our consciousness, and as is our consciousness so is our life. Let your
first thought of the day simply be peaceful. Plant this seed. Water it with attention and
you will gather the calm
June 21st 2005
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~ ethics and principles ~
As we grow more complex and sophisticated, we develop more elaborate ways at looking at our
world.
We hear often we need to keep it simple and live each day as it comes. And why? Maybe for
all our human qualities and development, we can forget the simple pleasures of the days we
have.
Experiencing the day, enabling our senses, taking time to absorb and reflect. To savour the
moment, as if it were our last?
Ethics and principles develop, to enable our enjoyment of living, to have a code, a
framework and a way of accepting our experiences.
All too often we have our minds focussed on the past or the future and not so much on the
here and now. We are missing our lives when caught in dreams, and we might miss opportunity
without those dreams. In all matters we need our balance. We learn balance in life; we need
to cultivate our perception and experience of the world.
Life is forever there to be lived, in the present, with a head full of experience to help us
and a weather eye for the future. In balance, past, present and future, recurring themes and
dreams.
Past, present and future, essential and reforming as our world and our perceptions change.
Past present and future, our perceptions, dreams and experiences ever so slightly
predictable, yet unique and authentic to our reality. And best experience is in the moment,
and then recollected, foundations for future moments, patterned into eternity.
June 22nd 2005
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~ integrity ~
When the thoughts we think are the same as the words we speak, others will feel our
integrity.
June 23rd 2005
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~ the more I know the less I know ~
As I grow older, and many years have gone by, my knowledge grows wider and more deeply. Ask
me anything and everything, I guess I can offer a view. And a view widened through
experience of life. We travel and learn and we accept everything in our own context. Our
context being as wide as experience and life enables.
We see our world clearly from our own perspective, its working and intricacy. It is a
fabulous life enterprise, experiencing and gathering and hopefully, we share as we journey.
As Journeymen we wander this earth to the limits we have. And our outlook is helped or
hindered along our path. And as a journeyman, learning is a mighty paradox, for the more I
know, the less I know.
Every life with a journey, unique and authentic. Every step enlightens our perceptions, yet
our understanding as sharp as life, is the equal of our experience. And out there across the
world, experience moves beyond and reaches across the universe. Beyond me, always open to be
seen, infinity, a forever stretch for mere mortality.
June 24th 2005
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~ still waters ~
A life of turbulence and noise may seem desirable to one who leads it, but wisdom is a pearl
found only in still waters
When we are all fired up with life, it speeds alarmingly from one event to another. Our fast
pace keeps the body working and the mind racing. And in these apocalyptic speeds we miss
nothing and forget everything, except maybe the rush and fatigue of achievement. The race
won, the victor the spoils?
As we find in life, there is no victory, there is passage from birth to eternity. And what
we experience along the way is ours, to be savoured as we go. We may feel something in our
recollections, best felt full measure as life happens...
June 25th 2005
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~ great wealth ~
To be content with a little is a great wealth
We come into this world with nothing, we leave this world with nothing? In material terms
its the most obvious truth. And in between we are able to learn much about our nature and
the nature of our surroundings. We are never turned off and never stop moving through time
experiencing our surroundings and how they impact on us.
A marvel of nature as we adapt and make use of every faculty we have, each developing for us
as we slide along. And as we learn our patterns of adoption, somehow changes are encoded
into future generations as our offspring and the offspring of others are patterned with
every turn of this world.
Our wealth is in our adaption, our reaction, our response to our world. We live a few years
on a world which has a life far beyond our comprehension. A truly adaptive world, it has no
favourites, it enables and flows with the energies of the universe. Mathematical, physical,
metaphysical, endless infinity. Our pattern emerging and enriching the universe, as we
travel, and so our impact is felt somehow, somewhere, here and into time, forever.
June 26th 2005
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~ restoration ~
Someone once said this is an insane world. So much of what we perceive and do is beyond our
control. Often I hear how we are powerless over people, places and things. And how true,
this notion of powerlessness becomes.
As we grow in years, we learn we truly have choices we can exercise for ourselves. How we
choose to live is one gift we forget all too easily. We are beguiled frequently by self
interest and self will. We are sent on missions and ambitions which drive us to distraction.
We live for the future moment and forget this one. We have the store of passion within us as
memory evokes greatness and insignificance predicated on values we adopt.
Restoration is the balance we might find, in the day and this moment, where we put down
insanity and participate as human beings, for the good.
And what is the good, the common good? Ah there is the key to unlock the secret of living.
Balanced and right sized, not big or small, the equal of society. A balance and careful
rumination, a moment of serenity before this insane world might set us again upon a path of
self destruction. Beguiling world, so rich and fertile, can be as barren in the blink of an
eye.
Restoration, a forever quest in eternity...
June 27th 2005
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~ introversion ~
Great people speak very little
A saying sent me by a thoughtful person. In my opinion, introversion is our inner place of
contemplation, where we try to sort out the information we receive. Inward reflections are
informed by the world outside, and the greatness of thought, if kept inside, might serve us,
might never serve anyone else.
We get our balance from inner and outer reflections. The greatness of our contribution is
the equal of its impact to the greater good. It would be silly indeed to gift introversion
with greatness, in fact it is a mistaken notion. It illustrates tho' how easy we can take on
our own importance. And in our largesse, loose sight of the greatness around us...
Nature!
June 28th 2005
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~ transform ~
Transform regrets into realisations and therefore ensure that what could become waste is
made into something worthwhile
Hindsight is one of our best teachers. We learn from what we do. And when we are young,
often we bounce back from adverse experiences, learning as we go those things which are
helpful and those not worth repeating.
As we grow, we tend to hold on too long to people, places and things which might be a
hindrance. We do this because we make investments in our situations and society.
There can be regret and resentment, when we hold on too long, to anything which hurts us,
emotionally, physically and spiritually.
We do have regrets, how we use these feelings helps us move on to new experience. If we
suppress our regrets, they can become resentments. We are able to amplify the impact when we
ignore and deny our feelings. And in time these feelings overwhelm and stunt our capacity to
deal with the real world.
When we hear many talk about letting go and moving on, they forget this is a human process
of development. We need to move on and let go. And when we are moving on it is because we
have experienced our feelings of regret and resentment, in fact all our feelings. So when we
look back in hindsight, let us hope we felt the experiences fully. That we have cleared our
systems of feelings felt at the time, and we had made room for new experience and feelings.
How else would we progress and reach our full human potential?
Dwelling on experience is how we process and learn. Time: there is no right amount, or wrong
amount, just a need to understand our situation. Then we can enable our understanding and
share our experiences...
June 29th 2005
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~ informing and sharing ~
Our thirst for knowledge, information and sharing is insatiable, even when we would rather
it were different.
Being complex people struggling often for the gift of simplicity, we often find ourselves
wishing we knew more and wishing all too often we did not know.
Informing and sharing is our gift. We impart knowledge in the hope we inform others wisdom.
Wisdom is a hard won state of mind, for most wisdom comes from personal experience. Its as
if we find others experience helpful, but not necessarily useful, until we endorse our views
from acting out our desires.
So informing and sharing, helps us become included and often make a decision to exclude. And
humans are full of ploys to include or exclude. Informing and truth, two bedfellows on the
path to redemption. Informing and mistruth, two bedfellows so often deployed they have their
place in our society. From the "white lie", to blatant palpable distortion and deception.
All have their place in our repertoire of social skills.
Informing and sharing, our gift and that of others. Beware all gifts we have, for they turn
on a feeling from good to bad, where the intent is benevolent or malign. Never more so than
the gift of silence, wherein imaginations reach out for the sublime, the ridiculous and
whatever else our internal conjuror can evoke...
June 30th 2005
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~ feelings and thoughts ~
The quality of thought creates the quality of life. And what of feeling...
Our quality of thought is the equal of the quality of our experiences. Both good and bad
experiences add to the quality of what we think and feel. When we experience joy, like none
before, when we experience sadness, so heartfelt, we widen the quality of our experience.
Somehow even though the experience may be joyful or sad, our range of feeling and thoughts
widens, deepens and becomes evermore real.
This notion of thoughts and feelings being different, somehow separate helps us to
understand how we process information and how we experience our world.
Feelings are always in us, bubbling and moving us to all sorts of emotional states. Love,
hate, happy, sad we names for all our feelings. We have these feelings evoked by our day to
day experiences and stored in our memory for good measure.
Our thoughts, our interpretation on experiences, come after our feelings. We feel something
and then we think about the experience, to check out what is going on. We feel and think.
So when we hear that the quality of thought creates the quality of life, we have a process
to help us make sense of the world we inhabit. Our quality of thinking relies on our
feeling. When we feel good, we think good, when we feel sad, we think sad. For most normal
folks that works just fine.